How do chicks handle being stared at?

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I am getting tired of it. I think it is the Thai man doing his passive-agressive thing, but man am I hating on it.

Went to a traditional Buddhist wedding. I would hate to be famous – even accidentally. I cannot imagine why anyone would want fame. The fortune I want, just no celebrity thank you very much.

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75 thoughts on “How do chicks handle being stared at?”

  1. Chicks don’t stare as long as some of the dudes around here. A girl I used to know said that she liked it when she would watch to see how long the ladyboys would stare at me when we were in public.

    Not fun!!!

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  3. As a twofer (chick with disability) I stare back, just once) and get on with life; don’t know how that covers cultural differences, so take it with a grain of salt….

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    2. As I mentioned to you on some AMU call at one of the two sites to which we both once subscribed, I think you have a great sense of humor.

      “As a twofer…” just cracked me up.

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  4. True enough, amigo – dare I say (in my case) they don’t know what they’re missing – and (in your case) they don’t know what they’re in for….

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    1. Thank you – I’m glad I did. It’s true, on both counts. (I’m feeling brave because my heart’s still slightly-melted from that Robertito video: Oh. My. Very. Goshness.) Saw one last night from ‘97; he and his wife meeting Pope John Paul II In Brazil: leading the before-Mass gathering in an a cappella “Jesus Cristo”. EPIC!

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    1. I wish that the concerts on video had subtitles In something other than Portuguese for Tito’s comments between songs/discussion about them….That’s my favorite part of a concert. He’s such a sweetheart; I find that irresistible.

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    1. I haven’t experienced it – RB – and don’t really miss not having done so; but, yes, it must be uncomfortable to be tied up in knots all the time…..

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      2. It was Dime’s use of an ellipsis in a recent headline. That was something that I ‘pioneered’ at Ricochet and out of the blue he suddenly starts to use it too?

        BTW: I saw your comment about your horse slipping and falling when you were riding her. Have you ever ridden a horse that tries to sweep you off her back by galloping under low branches? That is the worst!

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      3. Omg I wouldn’t keep a horse that would actually TRY to scrape me off! But it can happen accidentally if you don’t watch out; the horse only calculates whether it can get under an obstacle itself, it doesn’t take the rider’s height into account…

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  11. LOL! Between your brotherly affirmation, and his championing of the ways of the heart and spirit, l couldn’t resist….We don’t do it that way here (much), that’s for sure. (You’re right about the ability of Portuguese to melt the heart, too, btw.)

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      2. Since I’ve only heard it Tito’s way, I don’t have anything else for comparison; just curious….It sounds like Brazilian has lots of different influences – maybe even Greek (“eu estou….”.)

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  13. Frustrating that the neighborhood is a bit too ‘neighborly’; hope things calm down soon. Let me know if there’s something you’d like the Chaps to consider/take on/wrestle with; was toying with a couple things, but they’re fairly technical, so I’ll let them stew for a bit.

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  17. BTW: 1982ish I was drinking some local cocktail, getting hammered and partying my career off in Rio during Carnival. Brazilian chicks – God bless them very mucho.

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  18. Okay, you two have kinda lost me..ST, are you saying you are being stared at because:
    A.You are new in the neighborhood
    B.You are not Thai
    C.You are devilishly good-looking
    D.You are in the company of a Thai babe
    E.Other( please explain!)

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    1. I get stared at for a variety of reasons. I do not enjoy it – ever, but a GF used to separate herself from me then watch people as they looked and/ or stared at me. She said that she especially liked it when ladyboys would stare and watch me. I suppose it confirmed for her what she already knew.

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    1. You got dat right, bro! I literally used to stop traffic. Now, well, a few times a year I have a good day, people will look, smile, comment. It’s really more of a question ,for a hen (mature chick): how do you handle NOT being stared at?

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      3. I appreciate your lack of false modesty, Hyp. I was on the Homecoming Court in college and not embarrassed to admit it. What I believe is that a woman can look good at any age if she takes care of her appearance- weight, hair, skin, etc.

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    1. Yes, but serially: a blessing while you’ve got it, a curse when it’s gone, and every day you have to face the “mirror ghoul” . But you gents get a SOOO much longer run….

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      1. Agreed. Ladies are blessed with a much higher ‘sexual attraction value’ than men can ever achieve but the price of that is a much faster burn rate, and that my friends is why I am not inclined to have a sex change.

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      2. ….But ST, what’s your upper limit as to age where you might stare at a woman? No wait : do not reply, I don’t need or want to know, really. Really.

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    2. Re sex change: yuh, like Bruce Jenner: he not only changed sex, he changed his generation! The only case which ever seemed…sincere.. to me was Jan (née James) Morris, one of my favorite travel,writers. If you wanna transform into a dumpy middle aged woman, well, that is some SERIOUS gender discomfort!

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      1. I do sometimes feel that I am a lesbian trapped in a (formerly awesome) man’s body. I suppose that being born a male warrior instead of a soccer playing lesbian is close enough for my simple needs.

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    1. Rock life is hard to navigate; especially without grownups from your cohort….He still seems to be trying to be an adult. George Harrison’s death impacted him quite a bit, I think.

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      1. Speaking of George Harrison, this “judgmental lady” did not approve of the affair between Clapton and Patti Boyd or the heroin and the severe alcoholism. It’s a testament to his enormous talent that he accomplished what he did despite the destructive behavior.

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  24. DeNanda I recently bought honey that purports to be flavored by the flowers of the Longan (dragon eye) fruit tree.
    I have eaten the fruit and it is a bit of work but worth the price. I have not tasted this honey yet.

    In other words: Longan Honey.

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      2. Is it often an ingredient in other things in the grocery: for instance, bottled iced tea? Or can you find it on its own in a jar?

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  25. Buenos dias, ST! Have had a ton of fun over here in the past few days. I really appreciate the hospitality, especially as the time for more virtual activities gets closer, once again….!Muchisimas gracias, hermano y amigo!

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    2. Damn, ST, two of my very favorite rockers ever! Next post from me will be on my new favorite Millennial musician . (Never thought I’d be writing those words.) 🙂

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