In Defense of Simon Templar
Simon Templar has created a new blog (link). If you are wondering who Simon Templar is, I urge you to check out his blog: he is one of the best conservative writers around, and if you don’t know who he is, you should.
There are some who might prefer it if you didn’t know who Simon Templar is; as you will probably soon learn, he is a bit infamous and has a reputation that precedes him. 2019 marked the year that Simon was kicked off of both this site and the legacy site. If you are wondering why one of the best conservative writers around was kicked off of two conservative sites, it’s probably because he angered the people in charge, and he also angered some people who weren’t in charge. I played a role in that. This post is an attempt to make amends to Simon, whom I have wronged, and it is also an attempt to restore his reputation, which I played a role in damaging.
For a number of years, Simon Templar was one of the most loved writers on the legacy site; but somewhere along the line, something changed. Now, among those who know who he is, it appears that only a handful are willing to defend him. An observer who knows nothing about the situation might assume that where there is smoke there must be fire, and that if so many are rushing to condemn him and so few are willing to defend him, then he must be guilty of something. It’s understandable that some might think that way-it is human nature to think that way. I don’t need to tell anyone that it isn’t conservative to think that way, but humans being human, none of us ever totally live up to the principles we espouse. I certainly haven’t.
History books are filled with tragic examples of the majority being wrong: one of the things-one of the main things-that conservatives are supposed to stand against is the kind of mob hysteria which has led to things like the Salem Witch Trials. But conservatives are human just like everybody else, and we are also prone to mob behavior. The whole situation with Simon Templar is a case study in mob behavior, and I am by no means innocent in all of this.
A little over a year ago, Simon wrote a post titled “Fantastic Fans”, in which he relayed that a woman who commented regularly on his posts was harassing him. I was a woman who commented regularly on his posts: I knew that I wasn’t harassing him, and I found it impossible to believe that anyone else was harassing him either. I wrote to Simon and asked him what was going on; he didn’t respond, and when he didn’t respond, I jumped to the conclusion that he was making it all up: that in itself would have been bad enough, but I took it a step further and told a few other people through private message that I believed Simon was making it all up. One of the people I corresponded with over this issue was an administrator of this site.
In those private messages, I made some pretty serious accusations against Simon: accusations which were a figment of my imagination, and which were based on the flimsiest evidence. Basically, I witnessed Simon becoming a little bit irritated with another member: I took that, combined with the fact that I believed that the Fantastic Fans post was made up, and accused Simon of being someone who turned on his friends for no discernible reason. At the time I made that accusation, I really believed what I was saying, but that doesn’t make it right. I also told the administrator of this site about one instance in which Simon had become a little bit irritated with him on that a thread that he wasn’t on. I sited that as further proof of the wild accusations I was making. The administrator didn’t really say anything in response: he basically just said, in a nice way, that he was sorry that I was so upset and he left it at that.
Within a few days, I had cooled down, was wrapped up in the people and events of my offline life, and had stopped worrying about it. Within a few weeks, I had pretty much taken the position that I wish I had taken from the start: that position being, I had no idea what was going on, and that I should probably just reserve judgement. About a month later, Simon Templar responded to my message; he said that the reason it had taken so long for him to respond was because he was offline traveling. He apologized, and offered to make amends in whatever way I thought would be helpful. I told him that wouldn’t be necessary; a month later, I was long over it and as far as I was concerned, it was ancient history. I wasn’t even curious to find out who the fantastic fan was: I never asked Simon about that, and he never told me. We never spoke about the fantastic fan in any way: I figured that it was none of my business, and besides that, I was very wrapped up in my offline life and felt that I had more important things to think about.
I am so embarrassed by the way that I handled all of this: I wish so much that I had just kept my mouth shut and reserved judgement. If I was the only person who had wronged Simon in this way, I probably wouldn’t be writing this post, but unfortunately, I am not the only one.
A few months later a rather large group of L2 members launched a group attack on Simon that seemed to come out of nowhere. I don’t remember every detail, or the name of every post involved. It occurred over the course of several posts, but it started on one of my posts. In this post, I stated that it isn’t always a bad thing for men to cry. Simon commented, and stated that he had cried at the funeral of his best friend and his best friend’s younger sister, who were both killed in a plane crash. Another member viciously attacked him for this.
From that moment, the attacks never stopped. I can’t remember all of them, but at various times, Simon was accused of being a rapist, a sex trafficker, and a Nazi. It goes without saying that there was no evidence to support these charges, but if enough people are falsely accusing you, evidence ceases to matter.
As someone who is not innocent in this regard, I am in no position to harshly judge those who get carried away with emotion, but lets be clear: when it gets to the point where someone is being accused of rape, sex trafficking, and Naziism, and there is no evidence to support those charges? Then somebody has become carried away with emotion. The treatment Simon has received in certain corners of the conservative blogosphere is essentially a five minute hate, except that it has gone on way longer than five minutes. This is how things like the Salem Witch Trials happen.
I am not the only one who owes Simon Templar an apology.
Published with two minor edits and without permission.
U go JaCson!
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A blast from the past π Thanks, Simon π
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No ma’am, I should be the one thanking you.
BTW: Is that girl still single by some miracle?
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The girl in the picture?
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Yes, is she a relative of yours, niece perhaps, and still unmarried?
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How would I know? You are the one who posted the picture π
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Wow, that is good news because she looks exactly like a Thai girl I dated a while back!
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“…but it started on one of my posts.”
They tried to say that since it was one of your comments not a post then your entire OP and all of its points and arguments are invalid. I suppose they never ever never misremember anything.
Without them (and Hypatia’s encouragement [u go girl]) there never would have been a ST Unleashed!
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You are so much better off without them π
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It is not the place to go for people looking to have fun.
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Yup, apparently, “family friendly” means that you can talk about strange sexual practices, but you cannot post a photograph of a woman in a bikini.
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Makes me wonder what exactly do TPTB mean when they say, “conservative values.” What does family-friendly mean to RexRat?
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In their universe, “family friendly” means that there is no such thing as free speech.
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Another one of our friends just got banned. I gave him a gentle nudge in your directionπ.
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Thank you, madam.
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Banned from L! or 2?
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FYI I am getting a foot massage as we speak.
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Is that a euphemism?
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No, your Ladynessity, but I like the way your mind works.
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I have been a fan of the ‘tanga’ style bikini since my first visit to Rio’s beaches during Carnival 1982.
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I had so much fun wearing bikinis when I was younger π Bikinis should be celebrated, not condemned π
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I promise to do my part, ma’am!
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Lol π I am sure that you will, Simon: I am sure that you will π
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Is it legal to practice Christianity in the US of A in 2020 and beyond?
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Yes π
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You lie for what!
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I tell the truth π
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May a high school football coach pray for and with his team before every game?
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Probably not in the public schools, but Christians should try to avoid sending their kids to public schools anyway. School choice: one silver lining of this whole covid thing is that support for homeschooling and school choice has gone way up. We ought to be working to make government schools a thing of the past.
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Then how were you telling the truth in your previous comment?
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Ok, you win. I was not lying, I was simply mistaken π
I still think, though, that worrying about school prayer in government schools is like re arranging the deck chairs on the Titanic: government schools are a disaster. Just end the public school system. The whole thing is an affront to any form of liberty.
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My children attended private Christian (Protestant) schools in South America from kindergarten until we returned to the US. They were homeschooled from that time until uni.
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That is awesome π
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I wrote an article about this, called βWhoβs Your Daddy? Pilgrim Fathers vs, Founding Fathers on Religious Educationβ.
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I want and need to read that, please? Can you e-mail it to me or let me know where to find it, I will copy & paste it here. K mai = Okay?
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I will send it to you I starter!
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I meant β instanter β…
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When I suggested the good people of L! should consider pulling their bundles of joy out of the public school system, I was excoriated. If I recall correctly having two paychecks is more important to them.
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Well, they have to save for the kids’ college education, so that the indoctrination can continue. And then they wonder why the kids turn out to be leftists. They aren’t called the stupid party for nothing π
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Eureka!
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Thank you π
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Off-topic: The photo shows the waters I live, fish, and swim in everyday.
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Ok, where are these photos you two are discussing, bikini girl and …lagoon, ocean? I donβt see no stinkinβ photos….
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Wait one.
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In case it is not clear, I am not obsessed with nCOVID-19.
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They all turned out pretty well. One is about to graduate from a TLH nursing school and another pre-med at Liberty U.
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That is so awesome π Homeschooling is awesome, God Bless you π
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All on the one salary of a mid-upper level officer.
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God Bless you π You did right by your kids, God Bless you π
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Thnx dude. I believe I served my country well too.
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Definitely! You are a righteous man, and you have lived and are living a righteous life.
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Congrats to you and the mom!
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I got it!
L2 is where the people who actually deserved to be banned for life from L! go. ST Unleashed! is where those martyred on L! come to rest and relax.
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Perfect π
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And to have fun. My most enjoyable social activity is goofing on people I like and my pal ST provides me a very entertaining opportunity. π
Luv ya dude and pls, Carry On.
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Please be kind to this refugee, if he casts up here, even thoβ maybe a pride only has one Alpha male lion…..Pleeze…? Thank you my master!
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gmf. I am always kind until someones messes with my womens.
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Yes. Thatβs what I meant….
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Good, then we are in violent agreement. Joking na. I will handle with kid gloves.
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Shout out to Haakon Dahl AKA: d’Hawk. Dude do you see any teenagers or mud in this photo?
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WHAT effing photo?!!?
And BTW the gent you mention has disappeared from the mischief…..
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I just put the pic back up. I did not want the nightshift drooling over her and getting no cleaning done at all.
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Eeek, I see the photo now. Dky it took so long. . Oh but look even on her the string of the thing cuts into her waist. So why should I be so horrified about a bit oβ muffin top? Dk what this has to do w/ JaCβs apology post, but from your POV, Iβm sure itβs βwho cares?β
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“…but from your POV, Iβm sure itβs βwho cares?β
I’m afraid you have me figured out. Mum is the word, please.
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Besides being at a totally unhealthy BMI don’t you think her hip to waist to shoulder ratio is boyish? I may have to throw her back into the ocean, so to speak.
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She seems to have a small deformity centered near the top of her right thigh just below her cheek is that a drop of water? Nevermind, she is rejected!
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Wow, Judy, that was some write-up and apology. πππI am sure you must have made it up to ST in your unique way.
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Thank you, Sandomina π
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Commander? You must give us details.
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…or give us βde tailβ like Simon did…ππππππ?
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I think it’s Sando’s turn now. π
You shocked me Hyp!
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I am so sorry my sister!
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Be careful what you wish for ladies. Are you sure you want a race to the bottom between India and Thailand?
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Uh …
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