Why I Like Being a Chick

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This is in response to those wearisome Femi-Nazis because they know nothing and from experience alone, I know what it’s like to live in the best of two worlds. Ladies, take advantage of your position in this world while you can!

I like business so I happily contribute to the family finances and I’ll oversee the cleaning lady, the gardener and the landscaper. I will also arrange dinner even if I don’t cook meaning I’ll call the restaurant and make reservations.

That’s it. I only contribute what I feel like and will not consider:

  1. Taking out the garbage.
  2. Cleaning the gutters.
  3. Opening a bottle of wine because I have broken a nail before in doing so.
  4. Picking up people at the airport. My husband traveled extensively for 15 years and hired a car service.
  5. Making an effort to buy jewelry at a discounted price when I can so easily get it at regular price.
  6. No hotel rooms- only jr suites at worst on high floors far away from the elevators.

Guess who agrees with all of this and spoils me rotten? My traditionalist spouse. 🙂

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  4. I agree with your traditionalist husband, it is better to spoil your girl than to be one. Where do you guys find the time for all of those beauty secrets and spa treatments?

    Full disclosure: Part of my beauty regime is an annual exfoliation.

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    1. I don’t spend a lot of time on that stuff (it bores me) other than nails and hair. I hate massages!

      I buy things- clothes, shoes, et.al. and insist on traveling well.

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      1. They say the rich only buy high-quality clothing and shoes but not name brands. Do they live in a different universe? Are not most high-quality products ‘branded’ in one way or the other?

        Enquiring minds would love to know your thoughts on this also, honeywombat, pleeeease?

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      2. I’m not rich but when I shop I try things on without looking at labels. Then I look at the price tag if I really like the item. What I’ve found is “brands” usually fit me well and I will pay for that.

        I have six pairs of Seven jeans at $275 each but I wear them every day of the week and have owned most of them for 5+ years. I have Prada shoes that are 10 years old.

        Women wear 10% of their wardrobe 90% of the time so what I’m really saying is … Less is more.

        Invest in classics. You save money by doing so.

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      3. Moi? I buy my clothes at Walmart. I think maybe it used to be true that if you paid a lot for clothes/shoes, they’d be of better quality and last longer, but now (or until recently) everything no matter the brand was made in China, so…..

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  6. Liz, having spent a night in a raucous hotel in a room near the elevator I am picking up what you are putting down.

    Interrogative: If traveling alone and only spending one or two nights, why spend the extra donuts on the jr suite?

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    1. Claustrophobia and most suites are at the far end of the hall.

      You have no idea about my little book with every single room number I enjoyed in hotels all over the world and that I request specifically.

      Ok, don’t say it- I know I am slightly OCD. 🙂

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  7. Thanks for the prompt response. Anymore if I am going to be more than 4-5 days in one spot, I usually go for the airbnb option. I get cabin fever in any hotel after about 3 days. Agreed the jr suite is often worth the price.

    P.S. Good morning from the ‘Land of Smiles.’

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  8. ST Unleashed! Full Disclosure of the Quarter: Ok, don’t say it- I know I am slightly OCD. 🙂

    I don’t know whether or not to congratulate you so I’ll just sit in the corner and suck on my thumb.

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  9. “I only contribute what I feel like and…”

    And you go girl! Win-win because your traditionalist husband is content *(for some reason).

    *Joking about the “(for some reason).” Please retract the claws before responding.

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    1. I wasn’t at all offended. My husband takes pride in providing plus I do my fair share of making the donuts. He has nothing to complain about!

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      1. I think Femi-Nazis at this point in the war between the sexes are doing more harm than good to their own race. They cannot be that blind, can they? I think they won’t be happy until every husband is barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen. Can somebody shed some light on their goals?

        I was raised to be chivalrous. I now keep that in check after being scolded for opening doors and such.

        Signed,
        Confused in Chiang Rai

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      2. I’ll be frank ST and tell you that I don’t understand them at all. I was so close to my father and my uncles that I could never understand hostility between the sexes while growing up. This carried over to my adult life and I would count 50% of my good friends as male. I think part of that simply revolves around the fact that I don’t judge men for being different than women.

        Vive la différence!

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  10. I have written about this before so this may be a old news to some of my loyal listeners. Anyway, I used to play golf with a nice and very successful German couple. They both drove Porsches! After a round the three of us were having lunch at the 19th hole and she stated she wished she had been a boy. I have never been so shocked in my life. I always thought chicks had the better end of the stick.

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    1. Modern American women definitely have the better end of the stick, or at least, we used to before feminists started to demand total fairness. American women are the most blessed human beings this planet has ever seen, but much is expected from those to whom much has been given. We could use our incredible good fortune to try to make things better for people who haven’t been so fortunate. Instead, feminists refuse to acknowledge their good fortune and insist that they are victims.

      Have you ever noticed that poor kids virtually never, or never grow up to be “transgendered”? They rarely even turn out to be gay. And poor women are significantly less into feminism than upper class girls. There seems to be a great deal of appeal in perceiving oneself as a victim. The woman you describe who wishes that she had been born male is an example: she has the life of Riley, but she just sits around feeling sorry for herself because she isn’t a man? What is that about?

      All this “gender” stuff is the creation of rich white kids who hate the fact that they are rich white kids. In the old days, they might have joined the military, or built libraries-some of them would have just told the rest of us to go to hell and they would have simply enjoyed their money. All of those options are preferable to what they are doing now. There is nothing worse than a rich white kid who demands to be seen as a victim. When you boil it all down, that is all feminism really is.

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  11. Thank you, Liz, for defending your traditionalist husband. Feminists are trying to make men like him disappear, and to a large extent, they are succeeding. Thank you for standing up for real men!

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      1. Well, I will get in trouble for saying this, Lol, but lesbians don’t want a supportive and protective husband. And many of the most aggressive feminists are in fact lesbians. My theory is, they are purposely trying to destroy heterosexual relations. Not joking.

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      3. Well, it could be argued that lots of men are not in their right minds. If they were, they would not have allowed things to get this out of hand 🙂

        This is how it looks to me: many or most women who are supermodels can pretty much do what they want, but there is some pretty fierce competition among girls who are merely cute. Many cute girls believe correctly that they can improve their chances of marrying a good guy by working very hard and making lots of money. On the surface of things, to a young unknowing man, the girls who work hard and seemingly want to help men seem to be better marriage material than, shall we say, the more traditionalist types of women. In some cases, they really are better marriage material, but in other cases they aren’t. If everybody understood who they were really marrying, the world would be a very different place 🙂

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      5. Thank you 🙂 It does seem that lots of women think they can make themselves more attractive to men by being marginally feminist-seriously-and in a lot of cases, it seems to work. I never pursued a career, for several reasons, but the main reason was probably that by age 25 I was experiencing severe mental health problems. By the time I was 31, I was diagnosed with schizophrenia. Through that time, I worked sporadically, but not very much: I pretty much just stayed at my parents house. Every single one of my friends, including my childhood friends, ended up shunning me for not working. They just couldn’t tolerate the immorality of it all. Even when it became clear that I was grappling with an all too real illness, they didn’t care: the fact that I didn’t work was an unforgivable sin.

        Thankfully, I met some very kind men who did not share that view, and I ended up marrying one of them. There is no way of knowing for sure, but I am pretty sure that I was much happier with my husband than the girls who sell themselves as super hard workers are with theirs. And I hope that he was happy with me. He told me flat out on many occasions that my opposition to feminism was in my favor, as far as he was concerned. I wouldn’t trade the years I had with him for anything. I am pretty sure that if I had presented myself as a marginally feminist hard worker, he would have gotten bored with me very quickly and thrown me back in the water 🙂

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  12. In the world I grew up in, women were free to do what they wanted. If they wanted to work, great, if they didn’t, great, their husbands spoiled them and they very much appreciated it. I am describing women of my mother’s generation here. Lots of women my age seemed to come to the conclusion that they could improve their chances of marrying by working hard and shunning women who don’t. In the short term, that often works, but over the long term, some of those women end up biting off more than they can chew. Especially if they have children. Being a working mother is no joke: being a mother at all is incredibly difficult, and being a working mother is harder than that. But young childless women who are trying to knock out the competition don’t realize this until it is too late. Then they get angry, often with their husbands. It is a bad scene.

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      4. That is so awesome! Liz is a great writer, it is good to know that her writing is getting the recognition it deserves 🙂

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  14. It is a valid point. It seems the adults sent the boys off to fight endless wars after WW II; and while the boys were away, the Ruling Class gave the country to ChiComs and every American identity group ever imagined. Now it is time to start giving reparations to African-Americans.

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    1. I hate to say it, but the Greatest Generation-and Oh My God, they really were The Greatest, but they bear some of the blame here. Whose idea was it to make college students exempt from the draft?

      My parents are from the WWII generation, but they were not much for Dr. Spock 🙂 If I had tried to pull what the Woodstock generation pulled, I would have been slapped into another solar system 🙂

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    2. Seriously, many parents and older people in general don’t seem to get that kids are kids. And anybody under the age of 30 is a kid, and should really not be taken all that seriously. My parents were active pro-lifers, but they strongly discouraged me from getting involved. They told me to just focus on my life and leave saving the world to them, for the time being anyway. Their view was, that I was a kid, and that kids should just not be taken all that seriously, even when they are saying things that you agree with. I cannot express how grateful I am that they took that view.

      Us old people have to be the adults. When we encourage young people to go out and save the world (from who? from us?) we are placing a terrible burden on their shoulders. We are giving them a job that they are nowhere ready to do, and it should surprise no one when disaster ensues.

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      1. Yea but, all but one of the 10s I dated were shameless gold-diggers. The exception called me her “armor imposible.”

        Perfect 10s are almost never perfect because the juice ain’t worth the squeeze. What is that you say?Don’t believe me. Ask Sir Paul McCartney and/ or Johnny Depp.

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      2. I don’t know whether to really believe you, or whether you are just saying this to stay in good with 99% of the female population 🙂 Lol, you crack me up 🙂

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  16. What I love about you, Liz, and what is highlighted in this post, is that you know yourself, your know your limits, you know what you are good at and what you enjoy and what you aren’t good at and what you don’t enjoy, and you arrange your life accordingly. I am sure that has much to do with why you and your husband are so happy.

    Many women are over extending themselves: this idea that we can all have it all at the same time is ludicrous, and it ends up making a lot of people miserable. To a young 22 year old dingbat who has never done anything other than take classes, caring for small children, making three meals for a family every day and keeping a house in order along with pursuing a high power career may sound a piece of cake, but it isn’t. The fact that so many women who attempt that very difficult feat end up complaining endlessly about men in general and their husbands in particular is a testament to that.

    We all have limitations, and we are all different. Femi Nazis won’t recognize that. They want to force everyone into the same mold. They want young mothers of young children to work just as hard and be just as successful as 60 year old male CEOs. When it doesn’t happen, they scream about the unfairness of it all. They want teenage girls to be just as deadly on the battlefield as testosterone laden men. When it doesn’t happen, they scream about the unfairness of it all.

    Feminists are trying to be all things to all people. No one can be all things to all people.

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    1. “Feminists are trying to be all things to all people. No one can be all things to all people.”
      True dat!

      And thanks very much for the flattering words! Made my morning.

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  17. ST,
    I’m worried your site might not survive because we all enjoy each other, agree or disagree in a civil manner, graciously welcome newcomers and talk amongst ourselves offline as friends.

    Hmm … Can this Nirvana continue to exist? 🙂 🙂

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    2. “I’m worried your site might not survive …”

      …and not for nothing. I have been de-platformed twice already and you can rest assured storm clouds are gathering. They cannot tolerate this good vibe we got going on. SJW, anti-truthers, jealous men, jilted lovers, and others will eventually start taking their shots. Time will tell, Lizzie.

      P.S. You thank JaC for hers, and I thank you for this kind comment. You made my day, dude.

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  18. “When it doesn’t happen, they scream about the unfairness of it all. They want teenage girls to be just as deadly on the battlefield as testosterone laden men. When it doesn’t happen, they scream about the unfairness of it all.”

    The pattern I am noting is at the end of the day all they can do is scream until men fix whatever feminazis think needs to be fixed. Wash – Rinse – Repeat

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  19. Jac, I’d like to see a little more gentlemanly behavior from some men toward the women who appreciate it; encourage them not to back away for fear of the repercussions. 🙂

    I love being gracious to men because they never expect it!

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